WEDDING POLICY ADDENDUM TO FACILITY USE AGREEMENT
The first question a couple must answer is whether or not they desire a Christian marriage or simply a place in which to be married.
There is a risk that the nature and purpose of Christian marriage can be lost if the Chapel and its gardens are reduced to no more than a beautiful setting for a service. It is vital for couples planning to be married in the Chapel to understand that Christian marriage assumes the centrality of Jesus Christ, a life of discipleship in his life, and the life of his church. The marriage liturgy itself is the beginning of that remarkable journey.
If you are seriously considering the implication involved in a Christian marriage, we look forward to working with you at Chapel of the Lakes.
It is important to note that nothing is officially on the calendar until the Pastor meets with the couple and approves the wedding ceremony. It is strongly recommended that you do not make other plans (reception, caterer, etc.) until a firm date has been set.
Who may be married at Chapel of the Lakes?
- Members
- Children or Grandchildren of Members of Chapel of the Lakes.
- In unique circumstances, the pastor may permit someone who is not a member of a direct descendant of a member to be married in the Chapel, but this is rare.
What is required to be married at Chapel of the Lakes?
- Meeting with the pastor to request the wedding at the Chapel and reserve a wedding date.
- Meet with the Chapel wedding coordinator to go over details and plans.
- Pre-martial counseling required for “first-time” couples, for others, the pastor will determine after the initial meeting if counseling is needed.
- The Chapel pastor will officiate, unless the pastor approves an alternative plan.
- The couple will be responsible for obtaining a valid marriage license.
- Wedding leaflets are not provided by the Chapel. If a couple wishes to provide a leaflet, the pastor must approve the final product.
- Normally the rehearsal takes place the evening prior to the wedding. All persons with a role in the ceremony should attend. Please bring the valid marriage license to the rehearsal.
- Please refer to the Facility Use Agreement for instruction on decorations.
- Photographers must be discreet and not distract from worship.
- Any music must be approved by the pastor/wedding coordinator and paid for by the couple.
Receptions at the Chapel of the Lakes
Please refer to the Facility Use Agreement with regard to the use of the facility. It is important to note that Chapel of the Lakes is an alcohol free and smoke free campus. There is no exception for wedding receptions.
Final 11/18/2024